Love - Undefined & Uncertain - Anonymous Syndrome

People say its a lifelong disease and one never wants to get cured after getting infected..:)..Its a topic which is undebated and will always will remain so coz every human has a different feeling and perception to share on it.
Let me call it a disease ;) no human on this earth can escape this disease depending on the age..lol...The leobond does not want to add her own opinion in this post but will only share what people think about it and I am sure readers will agree to it...
Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives meaning to it. There are times when people get infected by this disease at a very small age (teens) and I have seen the heart growing fonder day by day and people giving it a wonderful direction by marrying the same person and living to the promises they had made day one...:)
Lets talk about the symptoms of Falling in Love : The most wonderful and lovely thing about it is you never know when it came , entered you and decided never to leave...There is no WHY & HOW to it.....The person whom you like might exactly be opposite to your personality but you might have a soft corner for him/her coz you know WHY but you cant argue on it...Only your heart knows it....


Its generally in college which tops the statistics where we can see couplingsss...hehehee...I dont know if two people who get along well are actually in Love....The most common and dangerous thing which makes me laugh is that people around you know that you are in Love but you yourself are not sure about it and they say- We are just FRIENDS!!!!....
I still remember when we were in college and the HUM-TUM song -ladki kyun na jane kyun ladko si nahi hoti....& we all had laughed so much about every truth in the song -where on one hand guys are born Bhullakad , gals have a memory plus back-up to remember every thing..;)...I call love as ANONYMOUS Syndrome coz entry not defined and exit no one knows...There are various symptoms to it - I might be rude if I add my own opinion but if one judges such a person , we do all unusual things when in love and will try doing every non-sensical things on this earth saying that we are in love....The Valentine's Day is a live example of all such things.....lol...


Now coming to the bitter part ...Where on one side I see people get whom they desire and give life a new direction but on the other hand have seen people struggle for years to get together. Some even leave hopes, and blame destiny(not their fault at all..and not to hurt anyone)...
Every love directs towards one thing , that's marriage specifically in India. There are times when we marry the person whom we have always wanted to be with but still not happy. Was that actually love?? These are scary but is it that for a future we don't actually know , we should move on and leave the present..Is it that for some reasons since the society is not happy with the decision of our lives, we should move on???...Endless questions but no answers only one thing- I am in love but I don't know the future is all we say...:):)....


I wrote this post today coz I felt the need to spit out my feelings and share it will you all as wherever I go now, I find people infected in their mind, body and soul by this Anonymous Syndrome. To all my friends, K SERA SERA which means What Will Be Will Be, its lucky that you have been infected. Listen to your heart and follow your dreams, rest is actually a destiny decided by God....:):)...So keep falling in LOVE and this ones for all of you in love....:)

Har falsafe mein ek choti si bazm hai...

Aye Dost, meri zindagi tere geeton ki ek nazm hai....

Tu chirag ki roshni hai, to tera saya ek naya savera hai.

Tu samandar ki gehrai hai to tera sath mera kinara hai.

Mera aks tujhse hai , ya meri ruh ka sarmaya hai tu!!!

Aye pakizah , ye tu hai ya teri bandagi, jo diya bankar meri har rah ko roshan karta hai.....

War of Two Cities- I Call it DILMUM ....!!!!

The leobond today writes about one of her favourite analogies drawn between two cities in India : the left ventricle (SAY Delhi) & the right ventricle(Say Mumbai)....I call it the war of cities coz people always have drawn conclusion and comparisons when it cums to DILMUM!!!....I call it the LEFT & RIGHT ventricle of the HEART (INDIA)....To begin with Delhi....Since every city has its own pros & cons -so is wid Delhi...The leobond has spend most of her learning time(Graduation/Post Graduation) in Delhi...The moment you see Kulche/chole/chat/tikki/bhalle...glossy/flashy colours and people flaunting on the size of the car they have(hehheee), u knw you are in Delhi....You hear words like keddi gal!!!..bhaiji....Its Dellhi...The big glasses of Lassi...the autowaala asking Rs 100 for 100 m,hehehee...its Delhi....But one very important think -care and love....
On the other hand Aamchi Mumbai is adversely different-Fast paced life, utter professionalism n bindas attitude of moving on!!!....The leobond started her career from here and I feel proud of that....When you see people running faster than a Rabbit, its Mum....so fast that you need to gear up!!!..

I have met variety of people in my life and all have different opinion about the war of these cities : On one hand where Delhi is bit unsafe at night, one would love the night life of Mum...
Searching a house is one of the most tedious jobs in Mum -u can accomodate 5 in 750 sq feet, whereas in Delhi this space is considered so very claustrophobic!!!
Flashy colours all around increases the Beauty of Delhi and the simplicity of Mum touches your soul....
Punctuality : I guess readers will kill me for this....People are so very relaxed in attitude in Delhi  may be coz of the atmosphere whereas ; Boss aage badho ,Time nahi hai...Jaldi bolo are a few jargons very common in Mum....;);)...
Analogies can be numerous...but after living in both the places no one can deny the fact that the left &; the right ventricle of the heart(India) complement each other with their own charm and one should try to get a flavour of both...coz without any of the ventricle -Heart will STOP Beating....:):)..
Cheers to DILMUM....

Ashton Kutcher - I'll Be There For You

The Festival & the hopes which adds mobility to the pace of life!!!

I wrote this post on 4th Nov but was not able to post it..:)...So today here it goes....

The leobond shares with you the experiences in taking frequest flights from Mumbai -Delhi and vice-versa with a very common but a happening festival for we Indians. Its been like travelling from home to office with me moving from Mumbai - Delhi and so on every month ;most of the time twice.With every journey, the difference that I see is every time the frequency of passengers. The scenario at the airport is every time very different.I always take the early morning flight from Mumbai so that I can reach my family soon in the morning itself.

Today being 4th Nov,2010 a day before Diwali, the airport was tooo crowded as if I was standing at Dadar or can say Virar tsation to board the Local.People surrounded with their children making loads of noises could be seen here and there but there was a smile on everyones's face. I think it was the festival

smile i.e the Pre Diwali special episode, and so was the cause with the Leobond. I was also there for the same cause.

I have always been away from my parents after 12th and rarely have been with them during festivals so I dont leave any opportunity to be with them whenever I get one. Last year all of us were together in Banagalore; this year since Tom(My sweetu bhabhi) is with us , I am going to Delhi, my second home.Festivals in every country have their own importance, this is what I was discussing with someone whom I met very recently in Capgemini CIm team. He is from Netherlands and can talk anything on any topic and has varied in depth knowledge of every second thing on this earth.Yesterday , i too like others was busy decorating the cubicles in my office and was fun ;oh yes and offcourse I missed my almamater my very own TCS and its traditional day where we had to look ultra traditional...and allof us used to be in extra special jolly mood.The rangoli comp/fenz/outings every second thing...The facebook is flooded with wishes, the mailboxes overflowing, the smses here n there, everbody is busy in wishing each other. The offices/houses/restaurants every single place is decorated and every single Indian especiially has been trying to be in Jolly mood.In short, i would say that its only smiles everywhere but for some like Lavi..;)...to be mentioned specifically coz people like him are away from family and country as well and are missing India and I guess that is the reason why a person like me is not fit for any long trip away from the country...Sometime back I had this great desire to go for a long term assignment but soon I realised that a person like me who feels homesick every single moment,who hates the feeling of staying alone is not fit for such assignments...:)...Better i realised it else would have really messed up my life badly.

Coming back to the topic, though got diverted, I wish all of you a very happy and fun filled Diwali...With new hopes and aspirations may every single desire get its final destiny and add to the pace of our very own life's mobility....

Cheers...