Let me call it a disease ;) no human on this earth can escape this disease depending on the age..lol...The leobond does not want to add her own opinion in this post but will only share what people think about it and I am sure readers will agree to it...
Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives meaning to it. There are times when people get infected by this disease at a very small age (teens) and I have seen the heart growing fonder day by day and people giving it a wonderful direction by marrying the same person and living to the promises they had made day one...:)
Lets talk about the symptoms of Falling in Love : The most wonderful and lovely thing about it is you never know when it came , entered you and decided never to leave...There is no WHY & HOW to it.....The person whom you like might exactly be opposite to your personality but you might have a soft corner for him/her coz you know WHY but you cant argue on it...Only your heart knows it....
Its generally in college which tops the statistics where we can see couplingsss...hehehee...I dont know if two people who get along well are actually in Love....The most common and dangerous thing which makes me laugh is that people around you know that you are in Love but you yourself are not sure about it and they say- We are just FRIENDS!!!!....
I still remember when we were in college and the HUM-TUM song -ladki kyun na jane kyun ladko si nahi hoti....& we all had laughed so much about every truth in the song -where on one hand guys are born Bhullakad , gals have a memory plus back-up to remember every thing..;)...I call love as ANONYMOUS Syndrome coz entry not defined and exit no one knows...There are various symptoms to it - I might be rude if I add my own opinion but if one judges such a person , we do all unusual things when in love and will try doing every non-sensical things on this earth saying that we are in love....The Valentine's Day is a live example of all such things.....lol...
Now coming to the bitter part ...Where on one side I see people get whom they desire and give life a new direction but on the other hand have seen people struggle for years to get together. Some even leave hopes, and blame destiny(not their fault at all..and not to hurt anyone)...
Every love directs towards one thing , that's marriage specifically in India. There are times when we marry the person whom we have always wanted to be with but still not happy. Was that actually love?? These are scary but is it that for a future we don't actually know , we should move on and leave the present..Is it that for some reasons since the society is not happy with the decision of our lives, we should move on???...Endless questions but no answers only one thing- I am in love but I don't know the future is all we say...:):)....
I wrote this post today coz I felt the need to spit out my feelings and share it will you all as wherever I go now, I find people infected in their mind, body and soul by this Anonymous Syndrome. To all my friends, K SERA SERA which means What Will Be Will Be, its lucky that you have been infected. Listen to your heart and follow your dreams, rest is actually a destiny decided by God....:):)...So keep falling in LOVE and this ones for all of you in love....:)
Har falsafe mein ek choti si bazm hai...
Aye Dost, meri zindagi tere geeton ki ek nazm hai....
Tu chirag ki roshni hai, to tera saya ek naya savera hai.
Tu samandar ki gehrai hai to tera sath mera kinara hai.
Mera aks tujhse hai , ya meri ruh ka sarmaya hai tu!!!
Aye pakizah , ye tu hai ya teri bandagi, jo diya bankar meri har rah ko roshan karta hai.....
hmmm..a very very true account of the state of affairs! actualy whatever has been written here is nothing but the truth..the best or the worst part about falling in love or being in love is the fact that u cannot at all say or decide how and what u r going to do..and it becomes a question of leaving everything to destiny..my most favorite part of the post is the sentence "there are times when we marry the person whom we have always wanted to be with but still not happy"
ReplyDeleterekhu the best part abt this post is the fact that one can easily relate to it..and thats the quality of a very good writer! keep posting!
wat a post rekha......ROCKING.......simply LOVED it......
ReplyDeleteanother good one leobond! :)
ReplyDeletewell... i am certainly not qualified to contend or support this piece by you, but hats off for such fabulous lines...a poetess in the making!!! ;)
keep going...urdu is a beautiful language, and you have used it to great effect here...the way you have picked those words from the vast sea of so many other contenders...!
Excellent!!! :)
Thanks all....Tuts, I think my nomadic life is in progress of making me a poetess ;)....
ReplyDelete@ Namrata: When the mind thinks at the speed of light I think its better to switch it off because when we know that nothing is in our hands, we should just chillax and wait for nili chatri waale ka guidance...
@Pallu: Tks dear....If you loved the post , my motive behind writing is resolved...lol